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My Current Favorites – [October 2025]: Illumination, Cashmere Throw, Dream of the Red Chamber
The weather is getting colder, and this month I’m enjoying activities that warm both body and soul. Cashmere Throw Last winter, facing the cold, I had an ambitious idea: making a cashmere throw myself from fabric sold by the meter. I didn’t know where to buy it, how to choose. That’s why I went to see lots of suppliers in Paris, ordered lots of samples online, and it was only in October 2025 that I decided to take the plunge: deciding which cashmere to buy, what color, what weight, what size… 243€ Later, a double-faced cashmere 400g/m leaves Turin and arrives at my place. After 4 hours of sewing (by…
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[Reflection] #25: Career Change, FIRE… When Money Becomes a Means of Liberation
JB and I often receive messages from people who want to switch careers into our fields (JB talked about his career change here , and me here), often with the goal of becoming nomads later. The pattern is always the same: the person has a good salary, but they’re bored or don’t find meaning in their bullshit job. Problem: they earn 60k, but if they switch careers, they become a junior again and can only expect 35k. As soon as salary comes up, the conversation stops dead, it’s always the same. At that point, they explain they have a mortgage to pay, a child, and they don’t know where to…
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[Reflection] #24: Cheap People Cost Us Dear
While tidying up my glue sticks for a DIY project today, I thought back to a story. During a DIY workshop, there were about a dozen of us, and we were sharing one glue stick among four people. It was a pain because we were constantly using glue for this activity. We spent all our time waiting. I thought we didn’t have enough sticks or brushes… until the last day, when we discovered a cabinet full of supplies. We could have each had our own stick from the start! If we’d saved all that waiting time, I think we could have gained an afternoon to learn other techniques. I told…
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Tips: How to Reduce Mental Load at Home Through Delegation
Mental load is on everyone’s lips these days. When I had my niece stay with me for a few days, I realized just how much daily tasks (preparing meals, eating, naptime) literally devoured the day when you have a child. There was hardly any time left for playing and relaxing together. This experience made me think: how can parents who work all week truly enjoy their kids on the weekend when they’re stuck between grocery shopping, cleaning, and meal prep? Note: this article is not NOT sponsored; these are tips I shared on Instagram, and I got questions, so I’m writing an article to explain further To free up time…
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My Current Favorites – [September 2025]: Bibliophilia, Bazi, Jewelry, Bompard
My birthday This year is a milestone year because I’m entering a new decade. To mark the occasion, I received lots of gifts, including experiences here, here , and and there. But the most meaningful gift (which I gave myself) is an exceptional book: a facsimile numbered limited edition of an illuminated manuscript by my idol, William Morris (The Odes of Horace, whose original is kept at the Bodleian Library in Oxford). This is very important to me because I wantedan object that lasts to mark this birthday (something that isn’t a watch or a piece of jewelry). It’s the rarest book in my modest collection of bibliophile books. I…
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4 Days in London (United Kingdom): Travel Diary
For several years I’ve wanted to go back to London, mainly to visit the Warner Bros Studio Harry Potter. But when we were nomads, spending a month in London seemed way too expensive, while going to London as residents in Lille seems more reasonable now. Despite the proximity to France, this is only my second time in London. The first time, I was an intern in Oslo and spent my Christmas holidays in London with my best friend. The contrast between Oslo and London was striking: compared to Norway, everything seemed affordable and the variety was immense. I brought back lots of English books (which cost a fortune in Oslo…
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My Current Favorites – [August 2025] – Illumination, Charisma, DIY, A Dream within a dream
I spent a whole month in the Paris region cat-sitting for friends while they were on vacation, so I had quite a variety of activities. Illumination I don’t know if I’ve ever told you about my obsession with illumination, but it’s been going on for several years now. I’d wanted to train in illumination for years, but it wasn’t until this year that I was in Paris at the right time and could sign up for Florence Aseult’s illumination workshop. Several participants said that illumination had become an obsession, and it was only by practicing it that I understood why. It’s the first time I’ve seen a repetitive task that…
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A Summer in Paris [August 2025]
Another summer where I’m cat-sitting. This time, it’s for friends. Three cats in total. It’s surely my (late) Rosalie who sent them my way. I was looking at Rosalie’s photo, thinking how much I missed her; that being sedentary was useless if you don’t have a cat, etc., when we were asked to take care of the cats during the August holidays. In Paris / Île-de-France. Since JB can work remotely unlimited and I have no geographical constraints, we happily accept. Lille is only a 1h30 train ride from Paris, but it’s quite a hassle to do a round trip in one day when we have quite a few museums…
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[review] Gastronomic restaurant Les Chemins in Guainville (chef Géraud Dupuis)
To celebrate our birthdays, JB booked a gastronomic restaurant an hour from Paris. Note: this article is NOT sponsored, we booked ourselves and paid out of our own pockets. The restaurant is called Les Chemins and is located in the Domaine de Primard, a hotel that is part of Relais & Châteaux. Here’s the hotel. There’s a large outdoor pool, but since we weren’t hotel guests, we didn’t dare go check it out. And here’s the restaurant. JB tells me there’s a “regular” section and a gastronomic section. There’s a single menu. The only choice is between a 5-course or 7-course menu. 7 courses = an extra starter and cheese.…
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[Reflection] #23: Karma & Destiny
Today I read an article about karma and I’m not sure if I’ve told you about it. It’s very difficult to help people, because most of the time they don’t need help but just validation. Many people contact us for advice on how to become digital nomads and when we ask a simple practical question, we annoy them because we don’t cover them with “you’ll make it” like dream sellers. I’ve already helped someone much more than necessary and I got sick for several weeks. Because I shortened their karmic trials and had to pay their karma in their place. Only help those who truly ask for your help and…
